About

On leadership,
honestly.

Executive coach, team coach and sparring partner, speaker, author and PhD researcher.
Sonja Wekema

I'm Sonja Wekema: executive coach, team coach and sparring partner, speaker, author and PhD researcher at Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam. I work with executives, boards and teams on complex questions and difficult conversations, across industry, finance, government and healthcare. I work from Stories in The Hague and online.

  • The Other Perspective is my professional practice for work with leaders, teams and organisations.
  • The Board Whisperers is a collaboration with Daphne Laan, focused on boards and executive teams.
  • The Academy of the Future is the learning platform of The Board Whisperers: an academy without walls where leaders, researchers, coaches, technologists and creative thinkers learn together on real challenges.
How I see leadership

That leads to the questions I work with. How do you bring different perspectives together when reality is plural and intercultural? And where does responsibility sit when the system itself is part of the problem? These are the questions behind the writing, the research, the podcast, and almost every conversation I find worth having.

"Complex questions call for more than one perspective."
Sonja Wekema
For the record
A career thread
The Other Perspective (TOP)
Founder & Managing Partner · 2017 → present
The Board Whisperers
Co-founder of The Board Whisperers, with Daphne Laan · 2021
Shell
Various roles, including Global Head of HR Shell Chemicals Operations & HSSE, combined with HR Director Shell Chemicals Europe · Business Advisor to the EVP HR · Employee Engagement Expert
Capgemini
Management Consultant
University of Groningen
E-learning Project Lead
Sectors I work in
Industry and manufacturing
Banking, insurance and pension funds
Central government and municipalities
Healthcare, including academic and children's hospitals
Technology and online platforms
University degrees
PhD Candidate, Management & Organisation (ABRI), Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam
MSc Executive Coaching, Hult Ashridge, London
MEC, Executive & Team Coaching, Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam
Drs. (MA) Communications and International Relations, University of Groningen
Certifications & accreditations
EMCC Global Senior Practitioner, Executive Coach
EMCC Global Accredited Team Coach
Ashridge Accredited Coach
Leadership Circle Profile (LCP) Certification
Fearless Organization Scan (Psychological Safety Inventory), Accredited Practitioner
Hogan Assessment Certification
Insights Discovery Accreditation (IDA)
Barrett Values Centre, Cultural Transformation Tools (CTT)
Lumina Spark, Leader & Emotion Practitioner
Certified intervision facilitator, Ooa
Courses
Body-oriented work in executive coaching, VU Amsterdam (postgraduate)
Team Coaching Certification Programme, Global Team Coaching Institute
Supervisory Board College, Hemingway Professional Governance
Cynefin Basecamp, The Cynefin Company
Co-Active Coaching Fundamentals, Co-Active Training Institute
Roles & affiliations
Partner & associate coach, Hult Ashridge
Visiting Faculty, VU Leadership Academy
NOBCO member
TEDx Speaker, TwenteU 2021
Author of three leadership books

Beyond work, I live in The Hague with my family. I ski, run, read and take photographs. See my photography ↗

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What clients say
"Sonja was able to create the conditions for difficult, edgy conversations to happen without it feeling personal or threatening. These are valuable qualities which set Sonja apart from many other team coaches in my experience."
Karen Niven
General Manager Product Stewardship, Shell
"Open, sincere and critical is how I experienced Sonja. By sharing her own experiences, asking critical questions and looking at a question from another perspective, I have been forced to shift my thinking several times."
Stephanie Koevermans
CFO, Zelfstroom
"Sonja has an honest and authentic style, is curious about the reasons for things, courageous to tackle issues. Always looking to increase the impact she can make!"
Gerard Penning
Gerard Penning
Former CHRO, ABN AMRO
"Sonja is a high quality HR Manager who develops trust with people she interacts with. She balances new talent development vs deepening expertise, empathy vs delivery, vision vs reflection very well."
Kalyan Ram Madabhushi
CEO Global Chemicals, Aditya Birla Group
Where I work

I work from Stories in The Hague, and online.

Sometimes it helps to look from the balcony, and then step back onto the dance floor (after Ronald Heifetz and Marty Linsky).
Sometimes it helps to look from the balcony, and then step back onto the dance floor (after Ronald Heifetz and Marty Linsky).
Set up for an Insights session with a management team.
Set up for an Insights session with a management team.
The hall downstairs.
The hall downstairs.
Looking up, before a wicked conversation.
Looking up, before a wicked conversation.
Leading in a Wicked World, at Stories.
Leading in a Wicked World, at Stories.
Contact

Let's
talk

For coaching and facilitation, speaking, research and media enquiries, you can contact me directly.

I provide coaching and facilitation through The Other Perspective.

I work from Stories in The Hague and online. More on executive coaching in The Hague at executivecoachingdenhaag.com.